With all this talk about Kiddo lately, you might be wondering where Charlotte has been in all this. Of course, we needed to tell Kiddo about Charlotte even before her first visit to our home. I think the plethora of pictures might have been a quick giveaway. Part of my card, complete with the "butterfly life cycle". The little egg on the leaf turns into a CJ butterfly. Kiddo handled Charlotte's story really well. She asked a lot of questions at first. We share stories about her but definitely follow Kiddo's lead in how much we talk about her. Kiddo has also sweetly mentioned Charlotte in her "prayers" and even drew a "CJ" butterfly on my Mother's Day card. When Charlotte first died, I had a difficult time understanding how anyone with kids could function while grieving another child. I was completely self-absorbed and was sometimes actually grateful that I could get lost in my grief without having to worry about tying someone'